Then lots of hard conversations and a come to Jesus with your wife. As far as your confidence goes, why has that taken a hit? Your sexual relationship is basically the basis of trust in your relationship as a whole. Thats pretty telling. Mahatma Gandhi Id also like to see those fun-o-phobes pack their bags and get out of your wifes life. Accept yourself, just try to improve. Oh theyre judgmental so I wanted to fit in why do you wanna fit in with these people who dont respect the person you love most? You know what Im talking about Im sure. If you love her and things work, then your answer is clear. Id say therapy but honestly no, she knows she fucked up and instead of standing up for you, let it happen. You never speak about your wife in that manner so why do you have to put up with it. Anywho, I keep listening and one of her friends mentions that she ran into Tom while grocery shopping and found out that hes visiting family in town. Right? Right? Which is obviously shit because she's willing to throw you to the wolves, but not admit her fun time with you. She did not need to provide more information. I wouldnt let her off the hook easily, but we all say and do some dumb stuff and I think she deserves a chance make it up to you and resolve the situation. After some begging I agreed to come home tomorrow and talk. No. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. Genuine apologies matter so I guess gage how genuine you think she is or if shes just upset she got caught? And I've faced this with my family-- I shut that crap down with a quickness. Good luck and I do feel for you. Idc about bros before hoes or chicks before dicks nonsense, when someone insults your partner behind their back its your responsibility to stand up for them, not agree with them and contribute to the drunk girl talk. Theres PLENTY of ways to do this in both confrontational and non-confrontational ways. We have 2 amazing kids. Her exact words "I feel like i settled for him. So no being friends with intolerant halfwits, and no more alcohol. She stopped criticizing after that. She let slip things that suggests she views OP inferiorly. I dont air out our dirty laundry for anyone else to see, especially when it comes to sex. Chin up man. She kept her bad friends 4. personally id be filing for divorce right away, being outed alone can be dangerous let alone your own partner then further breaking your trust by cracking jokes about your sexuality. This issue has been going on and at each turn, she chose not to be honest with you. You are not overreacting. Give your best anyway. We had a group of our friends over and as the night went on we all kind of busted out into little groups. Most people will say bi/lesbian women are "ok" because it's "hot" (I've been told that), and will see bi/gay men as an atrocity just because it's men with other men. Also, the fact that she let her friends talk shit about him while she and OP are supposed to be in a happy marriage Damn, that says a lot. I don't know what you should do but I know you shouldn't just roll over and say it's okay. Im so sorry, my jaw hit the floor reading this. You might want to discuss that during counselling, or maybe with a therapist. This story isnt funny but that first line killed me. You think youre slick enough to hide the resentment and anger but youre not. She should have told you from the beginning that she let it slip and stood up for you to her friends. Fourthly, buy that man a beer. Tuesday night we hosted a small gathering (all vaxxed) with some of our couple friends. We have an exciting and active sex life. This isn't your fault. I was pooping and you helped me push from laughing so hard. She's probably said more and worse in the past two years the women have known. Or even a long drive. How many people knew about it since she let it slip, considering she's telling the truth and it was only two years ago that she told somebody. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your marriage. No pun intended. I'm wondering if your lack of fighting in your communication may be related to her not being open and honest with you as you are with her. She is the one that keeps bringing up your bisexuality to make herself look like the rise to her friends, so she's biphobic as fuck. The biggest thing in my mind is, she shouldn't be saying things to appease her friends because she thinks they'll judge her for being with you. There is nothing worse than feeling betrayed by the one person you thought you could trust with anything. How I interpret you feel: she betrayed your trust, she shared your private life, and then made fun of it. Judging from what is written it seems that shes as much into it as he is, she needs to be real about that. The mmmhmmm's give that away. Are all your future conversations and issues also going to be relayed through said friends? Is the point of using your throwaway so she doesnt see your other post history? Next time she will really consider how the way she's talking to her friends could make you feel. I suggest an open minded conversation. Thats some boomer logic about the sex binary of gay/straight. Just shows she has no loyalty. They were together for 3 years. Hope you can solve things and come to a good end for you. Possibly she has to talk to the friends and say that she loves her man, and she loves his kinks, and that she was only saying that stuff to gossip. Kids do the joking crap and make fun of boyfriends, not decent women. I would keep notes about what's promised and then see what she manages to do about it going forward (should you decide to stay with her). As for your wifes friends, if they feel that strongly about your sexual preferences, then fuck em too! Tom hasn't been relevant for seven years. Don't ruin your relationship because of this. People can be so two-faced with that kind of thing. Don't go silent on her. But she enjoys to embarrass you to her friends behind your back about it. We have been married for more than 10 years and have . They had quiet music playing and were talking amongst themselves. I learned that it is usually a sign of people not sharing everything, not saying that is your situation, but she violated your trust and didnt even give you the courtesy of giving you the heads up. Keep sleeping on it, brother. She destroyed your trust, and trust takes a long time to repair. Gaslight, blameshifting, shamming, begging by the end and finally divorce. Same! So she's been hiding this for a couple years instead of letting him in on all the jokes behind his back. Highlight the fact that obviously the buck didn't stop with her friends as at least one of their husbands know. You can be understanding of her error, but she has to build up trust back with you. Second, I am sorry you heard them given that I dont know exactly what it would take to rebuild trust from where you are currently. I think it's too late for couples counseling. Talk it out and see if she can commit to working on this need to put on appearances. When the bi thing slipped, she should have told you. There are plenty things I could talk about my girlfriend and make fun of her for it to my mates, but I dont because what happens between us stays between us. After some investigation the the psychologist and clinic consensus was that my mind was f***ed up. Wouldnt your wifes friend be able to identify you anyway from the story? My parents stayed together for my sister and I and I honestly wish they would have split a long time ago. It is also extremely concerning that she never told you that Tom approached her before the wedding. I would be so freaking upset & sad. Go see a divorce attorney. And if they give you a hard time, then fuck em! She NEVER told me this. Your wife violated your trust multiple times. It felt terrible. Between stimulus and response, there is a space. Will you ever be able to trust her with any important information again? But please know this, todays generation can say theyre in the exact same boat as you and face no issues from same aged folks. She should have known to do that herself beforehand. You pave the way for us, and I appreciate you tons. Sending you strength. Implying that OP's "flaw" as husband material is because he not 100% straight and slept with men is homophobic. Im extremely sorry this happened to you OP. At a minimum she should have come clean about the bachelorette party thing the moment it happened. Also, if shes lying to you about this, I feel absolutely certain that are other things you dont know. You seem like you are happy in your relationship (prior to this obviously) and wanting to find a way to work through this and I feel like a lot of counseling is the only way it could possibly happen. Especially with the "gay" things they do. Its very helpful to be able to be open about everything with our friends, cause it makes our open marriage life so much easier without having to keep it secret and hidden, so Im really sorry that you guys have to keep your bisexuality such a secret. Id rather show my support. Your partner in crime fucked up. If youre ever going to get past this, you should both be in therapy. Who cares. Hes outed now. We say things to fit in, to belong, to make people laugh, to shock people and to make ourselves seem more impressive or likeable and so on - we dont always say things just because we mean the words that come out of our mouths. Personal details should remain private. I knew I wasnt in a good state and ignored all of them. I'm just saying people can be stupid. Regardless, hilarious. They don't have her best interest at heart and they will just as quickly sow seeds of doubt to her evidently impressionable mind. My dad was bisexual and if I heard my mother saying shit like that about him Id be livid. When she answered I could tell shed been crying and was a wreck. If my friends talked about my SO like that I would be livid and we wouldnt be friends anymore. Will you ever be able to "do the bi stuff" in bed with her again? What she did was the lowest of the low and completely unacceptable. If everything else is great, and she is genuinely remorseful, and willing to work on your relationship, I don't see why you should write off your life together. People aren't accepting where I live either. I couldnt believe it. Has anyone gone through anything similar? I just chain smoked and clinched the steering wheel so hard I thought I was gonna break it. Think about you right now, and what you want. He heard her, not us) about visualizing other men. Ask her about it, give her the space to openly address it and dually try and understand why she feels that way as well as highlighting why you two are together. Are there no angry bi men who look like grocery store managers? Not the rest of the world with their petty judgements. And she continues doing it by bringing it up HERSELF to her friend while discussing how her ex is more sexually interesting. But I don't know that it's unforgivable. As in, never talk to them again. And as a low blow it is, it's an easy way out for a quick laugh among her judgemental friends. Wow dude, that sucks and I feel bad for you. Whether or not its just because she got caught, I dont know. I haven't gotten through this personally, however, I would suggest marriage counseling if you stay with her. Ugh I'm angry for you OP, but I agree with the other posters. At 31 years old! Because I think going three-for-three on instances of convenient bullshit is, well, bullshit. Be open with her. While true, sometimes people just want to fit in. Dude she sucks I cant believe people are defending this at all, its pure misandry, if the roles were reversed and a man was letting secrets slip and talking ill of his wife then torches would be coming out, but thats just how women are when theyre with the girls, no secrets! Fuck all that haha, that is so disrespectful. All the sudden I didnt know my wife. This makes me so angry I'm having a hard time putting it into words. She might actually be into the stuff you guys do but is pressured by her friends to be a shitty person. Relationship therapy, lots of work, regaining trust. OP, be worried that you're married to someone willing to lie about how they feel about you to have a better image for their friend group. Partners that demand that have no respect for you. THAT is a stand up friend. It's the typical "I'm in a perfect relationship but I overheard something that nobody would ever say out loud knowing I'm in the other room" scenario that gets done all of the time on here. Especially when it all seems to have been going well. It mattered not, the day was mine. Go out and do things during those days, don't wallow. How I interpret she feels: she let slip in a drunken night that youre bi, she enjoys your sex life and when her friends made you the butt of the joke and were being judgmental about it, she felt ashamed, and in true weak fashion chose to join in vs stand up for you and herself. Back then I hadnt realize I was bi because I was a teen, and scared of being rejected by my family, but I knew I felt certain attraction towards girls. Forgive them anyway. The guys almost definitely do not give a fuck. You should seek marriage counseling after this. Agreed! Doesn't matter if she means it or not. If it was truly an accident, she shouldn't keep talking about it, she should always just say "I fucked up in telling you that. At the very least there's some trust work that will need to be done to rebuild some things. And highlight that she prioritized her friendships over your feelings. It's terrible. People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Shows you don't accept their judgemental BS. I have no advice but as a fellow bi, my condolences. She probably just wants to belong and is afraid to stand up to, i am guessing here, to friends with stronger personalities. hey i mean, im not married, live with my bf and have 2 cats and a dog. Whenever theyre in bed together, the thought of her thinking of other man will show up in his head. Hubby is under the bus & she's driving over him again & again unnecessarily! It sounds like you're discovering a side of your wife you didn't know about. But something you might ask her about. If you can't let bygones go after that then take the divorce, but be the better person and give your marriage a chance. You're definitely overreacting but to a strange set of circumstances. You don't have to let it go. Ha fucking ha. Weirdly enough, weve never gotten any negative feedback from our closest friends. Look beyond her faux Pas and look at the positives and what you enjoy. I could not imagine this type of betrayal and I hope you can find peace. OK she was drunk and your sexuality came out in a stupid moment. So I became kind of a joke and was constantly approached by family and friends, which didnt contributed at all for my stress level. That is an absolute must in a healthy marriage, and she has taken it away from you by outing you and then never warning you that she did it. That is something you tell your partner immediately after it happens (same with exposing your sexuality to her friends). You need to accept yourself for who you are. Standard Group Plc HQ Office, The Standard Group Center,Mombasa Road. Her to never talk to her friends?? Thats punishment enough for some. Again this is a guess. This is probably something couples therapy can help you navigate. I just dont believe that all the people who have commented how awful your wife is, have never said things they regret. I think it wouldve been different if maybe she had some concerns and needed someone to confide in about it, but she shouldve never allowed them to speak about you that way. Must feel betrayed and really hurt. A DAD whose wife and kids stopped talking to him because he was covered in tattoos says he has no regrets. Im so sorry this happened. I told her she needed to answer everything I ask her honestly and she promised she would. You poor man, I so want to give you a hug. If she truly loves you she is going to beat herself up for a while. As Ive gotten older and talked/listened to more and more people, it definitely seems like most toxic masculinity stems from mens encounters with women they trusted, not other men. I am so pissed off on OP's behalf. I am a firm believer that most things can be worked through. Especially when there is alcohol involved. EVERYTHING she did was awful and she clearly knew that she messed up (more than once). Its one of the biggest consequences to a pushover personality and if she wants to get back on OPs good side/have a better go with a different relationship, shes gotta level up on her backbone first. No true friend will stab you in the back. If you can't trust someone with your sexuality - you aren't going to trust them with anything else that matters to you, there will always be something keeping you from sharing your full self with them. Reading this brought me back to heavy hearted times. I can understand your hurt, and breach of trust, but people act stupid sometimes. When we had problems of a sexual nature it made me feel worse that her friends who would constantly gossip amongst each other knew. Oh buddy, I'm sorry you've had this happen to you. Then the friend asked my wife if she had ever been tempted to cheat on me with (insert ex-boyfriend's name), to which my wife replied saying hell no, that she would never risk our marraige like that. Seems like she might have played along a little too much to sound cool to her friends. We must feel sadness and despair to know joy, as frustrating as that might seem. At the very least, you need couple's counseling because it seems she has two very different worlds built up in her head when she talks with you versus her friends. How this going to help him after he become joke to everyone he know !!!! First of all, I think we all say less than admirable things about our SOs at times. Your wife is all kinds of an AH here. My husband is also bi, and I would never mock his sexuality like that. Your lifestyle is yours and no one has the right to question it, not even your family nor your friends for as long as nobody's put in harms way! Second, if you know somebody is making fun of you over something so intimate and personal, how can you enjoy it again? If, she cannot part with them, I would part with her. She didn't have your back and she put friendship with assholes over her partner in life. She brought her marriage outside where it shouldn't belong. If she had doubled down and defended herself and her friends, then that would be a break up situation imo. She outed you to your group of friends without asking you about it. I never said a word to anyone because I knew how bad she felt about that. Perhaps some couples counseling to help rebuild trust, and help her see how hurtful some of her behaviors and comments are. So my wife and one of her girlfriends were having a few glasses of wine, and while I was in my office I overheard a very awkward part of their conversation The other woman was complaining about her husband, quite openly, and specifically about the size of his penis. Ebony milf with big tits, shaking young boy's cock in rough modes 06:00. She said that was why she made the comment about thinking about Tom during some things we do sexually because she felt they were judging her for being with me. You don't want her or the kids hanging around with him. Well he's not open about being bi so I'm pretty sure he does care about it. I know that your * secret life * is very personal to you, but not many people will be concerned or even bothered about your sexuality. She's painting an imaginary picture for these "friends" with absolutely no regard to the feelings of the person she's supposed to love & care for. Im a masculine male with a bit of a cocky arrogance to me and I feel like all my confidence is gone. The world is bad enough with mean enough people, you dont need your team mate trash talking you too. Another violation of your trust. She and her boyfriend did it regularly. Seriously? also drunk talk often means honest thoughts of a person. I doubt your own friends would even care, they might tease you a little but thats what friends do. OK she was drunk and your sexuality came out in a stupid moment. If you do want to try to stay with her then, at minimum, you need to insist on marriage counseling immediately and you also need to insist that she completely cut the two homophobic/judgmental friends out of her life. We hung on because we truly love each other and that is what really counts. I am floored you are the only person who has pointed this out. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. But one thing I have realized is that you should be proud of who you are as a person, sexual preferences included. Remind her of this without judging. If that isn't true, she should dump the friends because no one should have to feel like they have to validate themselves in a relationship to those they trust. If it was an accident, she should have come clean when it happened. My mom wasnt even home, I had forgotten she was on vacation. I dont get down with revenge fucks, but if I thought she was super malicious Id be behind that comment. However you talk shit no doubt with your friends you would probably never want her to hearbwe can all be thoughtless assholes from time to time She chose you I'm not saying you overreacted must off been devastating to hear but it sounds like overall you guys have a good and loving relationship unless you are truly broken by this you need to talk and work out where you are now and whether this is repairable or not situation. I (28M) with fiance (27F) about a month ago overheard her tell a friend her previous Ex was the best lover she ever had It was quite by accident that I heard this. Do you actually believe that she didn't have any agency? 1) Your wife was so freaked she let the fact that you're bi slip out two years ago yet continues to discuss it with them? I'm conflicted because a lot of men talk about other women,wives,guys etc like that to seem tough and shit, but when a woman says it it makes it the end of the world? First of all, I don't trust your wife. This seems to be an unpopular opinion, but I kind of agree with you. Would she have thrown Tom under the bus like that to entertain her friends ignorance? If it were me, I would let her know that she needs to consider how this would be handled if the roles were reversed. One friend asked her if she considered it and she said yes but ultimately she chose to stay with me because I made her happy and treated her better. b- for creative writing, but this is total BS. Just talk. She buys all kinds of outfits and toys without me even suggesting it! I would 100% be considering divorce over this, if in OPs shoes. How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? She shouldn't be hiding things from you or telling people your personal stuff. She has been entertaining this for two years because she can't control her mouth when she's drinking. Take a few days away from everything. No shit. The simple fact of the matter is she shit talks you behind your back. If my wife was badmouthing me behind my back, I'd be beyond pissed. Sorry man, I feel like we all over share with our friends sometimes. I also really dont like how shes the one who initiates/etc yet was making fun of it?? The sheer betrayal of trust is breathtakingly awful. Oh My God, seriously? Does she really think they dont laugh at her for doing bi things with you behind her back as well? Especially the part where she acts like its a close call between you and Tom to her girlfriends. That's only for me and my wife to know. I got halfway through before searching "fake" in the comments. She sounds sorry and your marriage is great, so maybe dont listen too carefully to all the people telling you to get a divorce. You both need to get in front of a good counselors and dig in. Not impossible, but def not easy or quick. I suggest therapy for you for your feelings and how you want the relationship to proceed. You have every right to your feelings and if the roles were reversed there would still be hurt feelings. Will take her out to nice places, and buy her stuff. I mean, youre not wrong petty king/queen. Don't fight. Idc who they are. Clearly and simply. I'm sorry you went through this. Soooo. Her to like the same shit you go?? Im healthy and fit, exercise frequently and eat well, so that kind excludes most physiological causes. My mom was told me drunk words are sober thoughts. Lol see. She told her friends some of your kinks gross her out, and then told them she fantasizes about her ex-boyfriend while you fuck her. There are good comments here, so Im not going to get into that. Unless they're all like that and she's just throwing a couple out for a meat shield, like she did with you. German Husband let Young Boy Fuck his Wife in Threesome 14:30. She also needs to put her friends in their place or look for better friends. Do not make them feel you're different because you're not! Cuz while I get what youre saying, what OPs wife said was beyond just a little oopsie. Thats the shittiest advice you could give someone. From one bi to another, I'm sorry you had to go through this, it's a bisexual's nightmare scenario to hear your long-term partner say this kind of shit. she can claim she doesnt mean it all she wants but that will not change the fact she said it and then didnt defend you when things got ugly. Truly when you come to the realisation your partner has such a low view , I sympathise a lot with you dude. Oh come.A- at least. I guess the guy was too close or something because my wife again told him that he was drunk and should go back to the group. You two will need some couples counselling after this incident, and some of what you will do in the future will be decided by if you can overcome a natural feeling of anger and resentment that you feel. So how wonderful was their family while his wife is sharing secrets and laughing behind his back? Yeah, I have a hunch that her apology is going to include counseling and new friends. Im one of the long time married people commenting in this sub. 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